"The wind bloweth where it listeth, and thou hearest the sound thereof, but canst not tell whence it cometh, and whither it goeth: so is every one that is born of the Spirit." John 3:8
The Holy Spirit is our teacher, our teacher to show us how to love and be.
I reckon it is hard for our natural and carnal minds to know and express love. That is why we have to be led by the Spirit.
The Holy Spirit transforms us into heavenly beings full of Yeshua's love. God, He is ready and willing to produce in us the gifts and fruits of His Spirit.
KJV 1 Corinthians 13:1 Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity, I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal.
2 And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries, and all knowledge; and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, and have not charity, I am nothing.
3 And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, and have not charity, it profiteth me nothing.
4 Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,
5 Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;
6 Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth;
7 Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.
8 Charity never faileth: but whether there be prophecies, they shall fail; whether there be tongues, they shall cease; whether there be knowledge, it shall vanish away.
9 For we know in part, and we prophesy in part.
10 But when that which is perfect is come, then that which is in part shall be done away.
11 When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.
12 For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face: now I know in part; but then shall I know even as also I am known.
13 And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity.
Love will lead the way. Do not worry about today, do not worry about tommarrow because love will lead the way. And when you find yourself stuck in the face of pain just let yourself cry to your Father. And when you find that you don't know how to love just ask your Father...He is so willing to teach you how.
For it is better to give than to recieve.
Remember to smile and be thankful.
And when God reaveals His love to you just recieve it like a little child.